By Dr. Corey Allan

In Gretchen Rubin’s book The Happiness Project she compiles a list of truisms about life as an adult – The Secrets of Adulthood.

While marriage is best when it involves two grown ups, relationships often have slightly different rules and truths.

So what are the Secrets of Marriage?

Here’s what I’ve come up … add your thoughts in the comments.

It helps tremendously if you can laugh at yourself. Women really do enjoy flowers and chocolates. The quality of sex ebbs and flows. Laughter really does cure a lot. The same result does occur if you keep doing the same thing. Worries can be self-fulfilling prophesies. Let them go. Conflict will happen. Expectations are planned disappointments. Little things are the things you love the most. Learning... More...