By Dr. Corey Allan
Last week I reposted an article about nice guys.
To continue this discussion I want to unpack this more.
Nice Guys carry with them the fundamental belief that if they are good enough and do what others expect them to do they will be loved, cared for, and have a smooth and happy life.
When you get right down to it, this is purely a manipulation.
It’s an act in order to attain something from someone else.
Here’s a classic example that may have even played out in your marriage.
It’s not uncommon that a Nice Guy will do things throughout the day in hopes that his wife will be interested in sex later that night. I’ve even come across some posts on other blogs promoting this idea: Learn how vacuuming... More...