By Justine Lee Musk

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I went through a period in my life where people kept telling me how ‘strong’ I was. You must be very strong. You’re such a strong woman. You’re strong!

It got annoying.

And not because I disagreed with the premise.

I just didn’t understand why this wasn’t the assumption to begin with.

The bar for my behavior seemed set rather low. All I had to do to exceed expectations was to refuse to live down to them.

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Strength in and of itself is not strategic, and it’s not necessarily powerful, and I wonder if we tend to forget that.

A strategic woman, a powerful woman, is a brilliantly disruptive woman.

She’s dangerous.

I admire women who are dangerous.

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But the major reason I tend to roll... More...