By Leah McClellan

Seems some of you are wondering whether people who make a commitment to a peaceful, compassionate sort of life have sex.

Quick answer: of course they do. Or maybe they don’t. Maybe they wish they did but don’t or…who knows? Like anything, it’s a personal thing.

But what is sex like if you’re trying to make your world more peaceful? Isn’t it boring?

Good question.

If you think about it, completely consensual sex can sometimes be really aggressive, rough, and almost violent.

Bizarre. Incredible. It can be tender and magical, and it can make you laugh, cry, scream. Make you feel like a little baby and king of the mountain. Parent, child, virgin, whore, pimp and prostitute all at the same time.

Maybe that’s not your experience, but it is for many.... More...