By Dr. Corey Allan
There’s always a low desire spouse and there’s always a high desire spouse – and there’s one of each in every marriage.
The most common reaction to this is to believe there’s something wrong … either with yourself, your spouse, the relationship, or all the above.
For starters, things going wrong and things not going the way you want are two different things.
Second, if there’s nothing going wrong, it’s more likely you can turn things around and make them more to your liking.
Last time we discussed the idea that there’s a low desire spouse and a high desire spouse on virtually every issue and decision in marriage. And, no one is the low desire, or high desire on everything. Positions shift on different issues... More...
