By Jerry Kolber

This year I will turn 35. It is the first time I have ever felt the odd stab of getting older. There are two ways to look at this (1) I have led a really full and healthy privileged life so far and will continue to do so for as long as I can. (2) Why haven’t I done enough? Why haven’t lost weight, gone to grad school, published a book?

I will be honest, I am more likely to experience number 2- the disappointment perspective - than number 1 – the acceptance perspective. And I find that this is true with most people I know.

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