By Justine Lee Musk

We learned that we were pretty.

We learned that we were not pretty.

We starve to fit the skinny jeans.

We learned that skinny jeans = power.

We learned that being the hottest girl in the room = power

We learned that to please = power

And boys, especially boys

We learned what not to be:

too smart or ambitious or GOD FORBID competitive.

We learned to laugh when required and listen and applaud

We learned to disguise our boredom

We learned to stand on the sidelines

We learned that boys chasing us = power

We learned that being chosen = power

We learned that men are hunters and we should let them hunt us

(why else would they want us)

We learned that spending money on lipstick and... More...