By Lori Lowe
Recently, Kate and Brad Aldrich of One Flesh Marriage had an insightful post called, ”Do I want the libido fairy to visit?” I would suggest reading it in full, but I will share a few highlights here. Those who have a lower libido usually fall into two groups: those who would like their libido to increase, and those who aren’t sure they do. This is most clearly addressed to wives who usually have a lower libido than their husbands, but there are also couples in which the woman has a higher libido than her husband.
For those who would like that libido fairy to visit, suggestions include:
Make time to switch gears after work or after parenting responsiblities. Allow yourself time to think about your husband in a sensual way. Give yourself plenty of warm-up time,... More...
