A guest post by Susanne Alexander for Simple Marriage
Post written by premarital columnist Susanne Alexander of Marriage Transformation.
Transition. What do you think of when you hear that word?
It means “change” of course. But it applies to the big shifts in your life, such as becoming engaged, married, or parents.
These major transitions usually trigger an array of feelings, such as joy, grief, and anxiety. But sometimes our friends, relatives, and the media tell us we should be feeling only the happiness. Then, unfortunately, relationship-undermining doubts can arise.
Sheryl Paul, one of my collaborators in creating All-in-One Marriage Prep: 75 Experts Share Tips and Wisdom to Help You Get Ready Now, and an expert in relationship transitions says, “The problem isn’t the feelings; it’s our interpretation of the... More...