By Alisa Bowman
Be the Change in the Bedroom, part 1
Periodically men write to me and they ask me if my site is only for chicks. Usually their emails are somewhat angry and condescending. I think these guys are really mad at their wives, and they’ve decided to transfer that anger onto me. At any rate, they complain that women like me have overly high expectations. The email usually rants a bit about these expectations. The emailer is usually miffed that women seem to want guys to work and take out the trash and not fart in the bedroom. How dare we?! Then the kicker is that, even when these guys stretch and do what their overly demanding wives want, they still don’t get any sex.
I know most of the guys who come here aren’t quite that angry and don’t see things quite this way.... More...