By Dr. Corey Allan

Sex is a popular topic.

I’ve written on it many times.

Ways to ruin it. Mistakes men and women make during it. How to talk about it. The differences between sex and intimacy. And the idea that sex means something.

In light of the recent post on the dangers of pornography, I want to frame the discussion in a slightly different way.

What about your sexual potential?

Is it safe to say that many people reach a level of functioning in (or tolerating) their sex life and then cease to continue their development?

Yes!

Each of us will have sex up to a tolerable level of anxiety and this anxiety helps determine what unfolds during sex.

Dr. David Schnarch refers to it this way: Sex is made up of leftovers. When you got together with your... More...